When a man denies his desire for the feminine, either by choice or due to familiarity, it is a sign of his depolarization even toward the world.
He may seek a mistress in order to re-invigorate him, but this is usually only a temporary and complicated solution, since it is only a matter of time before his mistress also becomes familiar, and thus tiresome.
Any woman toward whom a man becomes depolarized will feel his rejection, disgust, and turning away. In response, she will become angry and destructive. Her "unhusbanded" energy will begin to move chaotically, becoming even self-destructive.
A man has no excuse; he must cultivate a polarized relationship to his woman and his world if he is to remain in relationship with them.