A good woman is a source of inspiration and attraction into the world for a man.
He must never forget, however, that neither the world nor his woman is the purpose of his existence. His practice is always to feel through women and the world, without suppression or disdain, into the their source or very nature.
A man's attraction to women must be converted from attraction to women into attraction through women.
He must feel his desire without suppression, and then feel through his desire into the source-energy of desire.
He must feel through her beauty, into the very delight of which her beauty is a but a ripple and reminder.
His whole relation to appearance is epitomized in his relation to women, either as obsession, distraction, or revelation.